On the TechTO stage ×4
Why you should be unreasonable I Alyssa Atkins, Founder & CEO of Lilia
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Watch on YouTube ↗Women's health and fertility | Alyssa Atkins, Founder of Lilia
Watch on YouTube ↗First seen on the TechTO stage in 2017. Every talk is searchable — ask the archive about Alyssa ↗
In their words
I'm going to tell you three ways I think being unreasonable is actually a good thing, especially for a founder, and that's being unreasonably determined, unreasonably confident, and unreasonably ambitious.
If we can make it feel like something that's normalized and should actually be celebrated, and is something you do for you as a radical act of self-love, more people will flock to it.
We did a pre-seed round last summer, pretty quickly. If I had stopped to think about how hard it was for me as a female entrepreneur, solo, being non-technical, I think that would have held me back.
I want to emphasize this isn't a fault of our physicians in any way it really is just the way our system is designed just to react only when there's a problem.
People are making irreversible decisions about their lives without access to information about their bodies that could have them just be much more informed and more confident.
This is the care that Serena Williams is getting — what hope do the rest of us have.
if you can kind of corner a market and access a distribution angle that is unique to you, it really ends up paying off
by taking this approach and thinking of where we could inject a financial component, we were able to expand the value of each customer
someone on a matchmaking platform who would stick around for a few months and the lifetime value was maybe around $40, convert that person to a payroll customer, which is much stickier — they stay on for years at a higher price point
everything out there will try to kill you at this stage if you let it
growing the company supersedes having a pristine product
if our marketing channels aren't effectively bringing liquidity to our marketplace then users will have a negative product experience because they won't have found what they were looking for
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Quick answers
What was Lilia?
An egg-freezing concierge Atkins founded in 2019 and took through Y Combinator's Winter 2020 batch. It matched women to vetted doctors, handled the research and scheduling, and pushed for transparent pricing. It started as an at-home fertility hormone test before narrowing focus. Lilia is no longer operating.
Why did Lilia shut down?
Atkins writes on her own site that the only route to venture scale was getting into the provision of care — building clinics — and that the egg-freezing market is still too small to support that. She secured an acquisition offer from an industry incumbent, but it fell through over a visa immigration issue.
What does she mean by 'being unreasonable'?
It's the argument of her 2020 TechTO talk: that not stopping to calculate how hard something is can be a founder's advantage. She traced it through a student window-cleaning business, talking her way into a content marketing job at Top Hat with no content marketing experience, and setting out to get a generation of women informed about egg freezing.



